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This is a place for widows to meet one another. A place to be encouraged, to learn about God's love for this special sisterhood. A place to grow in God's grace and love.
It always makes it more meaningful
to a story to understand its setting, what came before to influence the story
line and where and when the story takes place. One’s genealogy helps to do that
for an individual. Today there is great interest in one’s genealogy, learning
from where one’s ancestors hailed and...
Mark Lowry
wrote a song a few years back that quickly became a holiday favorite entitled, Mary,
Did You Know? It questions whether Mary, the mother of Jesus, knew the true
essence of who Jesus really
was as the Son of God. Did she really know the
extent of what she was saying when she told Gabriel, “I am the Lord’s servant.
May it be unto me according to your word,”
(Luke 1;38 EV)? Regardless of our speculations about Mary’s foreknowledge, the
question remains: What enabled her to endure in quiet humility his cruel and
unfair treatment, especially by the church leaders of the day?
It is the same strength that will keep you strong when life throws you “curve
balls” that seek to undo you. Mary’s absolute trust in her Heavenly Father
was unshakeable and she knew that His ultimate purpose would prevail. His word
was his bond.
In
this life we will experience pain, sickness, death, poverty, childlessness,
unwanted pregnancies, disappointments with children, financial reversals and
other unpleasant occurrences, all of which are part of the human experience.
John 16:33 reminds us, “In this world you will have tribulation.” So, what
should a Christian woman’s response be to all of these vicissitudes of life?
Let’s look
back again to the response of Mary to the announcement of Gabriel. Without
consideration to what it would personally cost her, she could say with full assurance
in her heavenly Father, “May it be unto me according to your word.” In other
words, may everything you have said come true. Mary was able to ponder each
incident in her life with full assurance in the words of God. When Jesus made
the announcement that we would have troubles in this life, He knew that it
would not be received well. Who wants to be assured that bad times will
definitely come? But then He delivers the good news, “But be of good cheer. I
have overcome the world,” (John 16:33 MEV). We, like Mary, must believe the words
of Christ and have a calm assurance that he is in control no matter what comes
our way. Our faith must be rooted in our risen Savior who is the ultimate
overcomer.
As women we
identify with the mothering aspect of Mary’s role in Jesus’s live. We can feel
her humiliation at being considered an immoral young woman, we feel her hurt as
her child is mistreated by the neighborhood kids for being a “bastard,” we
share her pride when he becomes a rabbi, we understand her confusion over some
of his teachings and activities, we weep with her as he is brutally beaten and
crucified, and rejoice with her at his resurrection. Then, she learns that he
is going to return to his heavenly home, his true home. But, we don’t read of
any disappointment from Mary over this because by this time she had come to
realize that she was simply a vessel chosen by God to be a part of a plan for
mankind much larger than she. Living out her reply to Gabriel had by now become
second nature to her. She willingly waited with the others in the Upper Room
for the infilling of the Holy Spirit, and, upon reflection could see how God’s
plan was coming to pass. We must do the same, becoming stronger in our faith
with each tribulation – no matter the form it takes – and someday we, too, will
reflect on our lives and see the hand of God in it all.
As we experience the joy of the wonderful
Christmas season and look forward to the new year, we are faced with a question
concerning our own lives: Do we know what lies ahead for us? We only know what
Jesus told us. We know that in addition to good times, we can expect some
tribulation. Perhaps for some it will be sickness, other may face financial
reversals, some may make a major move with a change in lifestyle, and others
may experience the death of a loved one. But one fact remains, only God
knows what lies ahead for each of us and, if we want to experience true peace
of heart and mind, we must remain firm in our faith and trust in Jesus and His Word.
Then and only then can we say as Mary did, “I am the servant of the Lord. May
it be unto me according to your Word.” Have a blessed and joyous Christmas!
It will come as no surprise to you when I say that
widowhood doesn’t hit every woman the same way. Some of you, in addition to
dealing with the loss of your husband, your shared companionship, your
chauffer, your escort to events of all kinds, you have suffered the loss of
income.What you ladies are experiencing
isn’t the “one size fits all,” even though you have many feelings and
experiences in common. No matter where you are in the grieving process or the
circumstances of your widowhood, you are all asking or have asked the question,
“What next, Lord?” God’s Word has the answer to that question. We are going to
look at the situation of a widow in the land of Zarephath to see how God
answered that question in her life.
The
story of the widow of Zarephath, (her name was never given to us) is recorded
in I Kings 17:8-18. Let me summarize the story for you. The setting for the
story is Zarephath,
As I am writing this, the COVID-19
pandemic is going into its sixth month. Months in which some of the time was
spent in quarantine, but always with wearing a mask when going out for any
reason. It has been disconcerting to have favorite restaurants and retail
stores closed, to be attending church services via internet, bumping elbows
instead of greeting friends with a warm hug, postponing or holding “zoom”
weddings and other important events, burials of loved ones without benefit of a
real funeral and the list of inconveniences goes on. Yes, life has not turned
out the way we imagined at the beginning of 2020. As I reflect on the isolation and
inconveniences we have endured as a result of this pandemic, I’m reminded of a
woman